Lahat ng pagkakamali, lahat ng sakit, lahat ng lungkot. May dahilan. At may lesson na dapat matutunan.
#1 Too Much.
Lahat ng sobra, masama. Lahat ng sobra, pwedeng makapanakit. Don’t love too much, magtira ka sa sarili mo. Once kasi na mawala siya, masyadong mahirap tanggapin. Walang permanente sa mundo. Lahat nawawala. Mahirap. Mahirap ng maibalik ang isang bagay na nawala na. TOO MUCH LOVE WILL KILL YOU, ika nga. So learn to control what you feel. Di masama ang magmahal, masama lang ang sobrang pagmamahal.
Don’t trust too much, once na masira, mahirap ng ibalik. MASASAKTAN KA LANG! Kahit na kasi ibigay mo ang lahat ng tiwala mo, kung yung taong yun MANLOLOKO lang pala. Sayang lang yung tiwala mo. Masisira’t masisira yun at napakasakit tanggapin.
Don’t assume too much, wag ng maging assumera mga people! Wag magpapadala masyado sa kung ano’ng ipinakikita niya. Kesyo sweet, may gusto na agad? Kesyo di kayo nag-aaway, wala ng problema? Kesyo may ‘i love you’, mahal ka na talaga agad? Kesyo kayo na, magiging kuntento na?
People’s mind and feelings do change. We cannot read other people’s mind or even know what’s the real feelings. Sasabihin mahal ka, pero di naman talaga. Sasabihin gusto ka, pero bukas di na. Sasabihing ikaw lang, pero bukas may iba na.
TOO MUCH love? Too much trust? Well, YOU CAN HURT TOO MUCH.
#2 Things they’ve said.
Madali tayong magpaniwala sa kung ano ang sinasabi nila. Di mo alam kung totoo ba yun o hindi. Di mo alam kung sincere ba yun o hindi.
Forever. Duh~ Isa ako sa mga naniwala’t ginamit ang word na FOREVER. But then, there is no such thing as FOREVER. Nothing lasts forever. Nothing is permanent. Lahat nagbabago. Lahat nag-iiba. Lahat nagsasawa. Lahat napapagod. Lahat natututo. Lahat nasasaktan.
I love you. Sincere ba? Ginagawa ba? Madaling sabihin ‘to. Pero we still need actions to prove it. But then, pwede nga magbago ang lahat. Kahit na sinabi niyang mahal ka niya. Darating din ang oras na WALA KA NA LANG skanya.
These must be some of those lessons that we should know. May nakapagsabi nga sa’akin. Na yung bagay na dapat matutunan, minsan kailangan pa’ng maranasan mo para talagang matutunan mo. Yung tipong kahit tinuruan ka na, di mo pa din na-gets. Kaya dapat i-apply sa’yo for you to learn.
Don’t be afraid to lose. Don’t be afraid to fall. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. Don’t be afraid to fail. Don’t be afraid to hurt. Because all of these things happens for a reason. All of these things happens for us to learn something from it.
If these things made you WEAK, then you must be STRONGER.
If these things made you NEGATIVE THINKER, then you must THINK MOST OF THE POSITIVE SIDE.
If you think you can’t do it. Well, you’re wrong. YOU CAN DO IT.
Moving on is not easy. Forgetting someone who gave you happiness is difficult to do. But then, if they decided to go, so let it be. We must thanked them and continue living life to the fullest without them.
Sabi nga, kapag may umalis. Someone will come or come back.
Memories. Treasure them. Nasaktan man tayo, naging masaya man tayo. We should keep those memories in our hearts. Not for us to feel that pain or happiness again, but to keep those precious memories that made us a better person now.
All that happens is in GOD’S WILL. It is in HIS PLANS for us. So, just wait, because God has a better plan for you. Which will make you happy, hurtless and comfortable.
Let’s continue life. Let’s value our life more. Those people who hurt us are just dumb. They didn’t see our real worth. It’s their loss not ours.
LIVE LONGER.
LAUGH STRONGER.and LOVE MORE.
God Bless Everyone. :”>
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Don’t let heartaches ruin our summer! LIFE MUST GO ON. :))))